Everything You Need To Know About Honeymoons - Purely Honeymoons

A honeymoon is a holiday or vacation embarked on by newlyweds to celebrate their marriage. It usually holds immediately after the wedding.

Honeymoons take place away from the couple’s home. For their honeymoon, couples choose romantic places that neither of them has visited or a place that is special and symbolic to their union.

Why Are Honeymoons Important?

Honeymoons are important to the romantic life of couples. Firstly, honeymoons help couples ease off wedding stress. The long months of planning and dotting the Is and Ts to make the big day perfect can take a toll on couples. The honeymoon is therefore a period to shake off the stress, relax and remember why they went through all that wedding stress.

Secondly, the honeymoon is a time of detachment from family and friends and a time of bonding for the couple. Thirdly, it is a time for couples to create pleasant memories that will see them through tough times that are inevitable in the future.

A honeymoon is also a time of transition for couples. The woman has to frame her mindset to move from girlfriend to fiancée and now wife. The man also needs to open up his mind to the fact that he is no longer a boyfriend or fiancé but now a husband. The honeymoon gives the couple some time to let go of the last shred of me’ to embracing the new language of us’.

Why Do Couples Go On A Honeymoon?

Couples go on honeymoon to really get to know and understand each other. Now that the courtship is over, it is a time for readjusting and reflecting on the huge step they have taken. Newlyweds go on honeymoon to lay back and enjoy each other’s company, before the realities and responsibilities of married life set in.

Why Is A Honeymoon Called A Honeymoon?

There are various probable reasons why a honeymoon is called a honeymoon. Most of these reasons are given by folklore. The first reason states that a honeymoon is called a honeymoon because in the old Babylonian tradition, a bride’s father would give the groom as much mead as he wanted, in the first month of the marriage.

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The mead tasted like honey and was believed to be an aphrodisiac which boosts fertility. So, the Babylonians called that first month of marriage the honey month. That phrase ‘honey month’ has overtime changed into honeymoon.

The second explanation says that newlyweds drank a cup of honey-like wine called mead every day. The third story states that the first month of marriage is the sweetest because love fades as time goes by.

Some other school of thought relates newlyweds to the queen bee who leaves the hive after giving birth. The bee seeks out several drones in other congregations and gets inseminated by them with enough sperm to last her a lifetime. After that, she returns to the hive. In the same way, couples leave their family and friends, go away for a while then go back home after a while.

What Is The Purpose Of A Honeymoon?

A long time ago, the main purpose of the honeymoon was for newlyweds to have their first sexual encounter with each other. It was a time for the man and his wife to be intimate with each other without any distractions such as house chores.

Today, that is not the case. The purpose of honeymoons is for couples to unwind and get some relief from the planning and execution of their weddings. It is intended to be a time for recollection of the events that made up or led up to the wedding. It is also meant to be a time for taking pictures and creating memories. A honeymoon is also intended to be a time for couples to cuddle up to each other, reaffirm their love for each other and enjoy each other’s company.

Can You Go On A Honeymoon Before A Wedding?

It is highly unusual to go on a honeymoon before a wedding. The idea of having a honeymoon before a wedding counteracts and nullifies the essence of a honeymoon. While it is unusual to have a honeymoon before a wedding, it is not impossible.

Some people call this type of honeymoon a pre-wedding honeymoon, pre-honeymoon or early moon. Couples go on early moon during preparations for their wedding. For some, it is a time to cool off and get some rest during the stressful time of arranging for the wedding.

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While most couples embark on their honeymoon right after their wedding, some others put off the honeymoon until about a year after the wedding. This situation could crop up when newlyweds have exhausted all their savings on the wedding. Couples who do not want inexpensive honeymoons would save up for a year to have the honeymoon of their dreams. It could also occur as a result of unfavourable weather at the honeymoon destination.

Some people cannot stand the humidity in certain exotic cities, so they wait for winter to come. On the other hand, some couples avoid spending time in certain cities during the winter, because of the extremity of the snowfall. They would rather wait for summer.

A new type of honeymoon is the solo moon or unimoon. In this kind of honeymoon, either the bride or groom goes on the vacation, without his or her spouse. Solo moons are usually last minute decisions which result from a spouse having to return to work. The spouse who has the time goes on the honeymoon alone, so that the pre-paid hotel and holiday packages do not go to waste.

Some other times, it arises from inability of couples to agree on a vacation resort for their honeymoon. As a result, the groom and his friends end up in one resort and the bride and her friends have fun at another resort.

The spouse who has the time goes on the honeymoon alone, so that the pre-paid hotel and holiday packages do not go to waste. Some other times, it arises from inability of couples to agree on a vacation resort for their honeymoon. As a result, the groom and his friends end up in one resort and the bride and her friends have fun at another resort.

Honeymoons are serene, happy times for couples after the stress and exhaustion accumulated during the wedding preparation. The honeymoon is a time for bride and groom to get to know each other intimately, without the surrounding noise and laughter from family and friends. It is a time to wake up to the reality of marriage. Honeymoons are important steps that gently ease couples into marriage.

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